Stop Drinking
or at the very least, stop drinking to excess
Hate to break it to you, but drinking alcohol a few times a week is potentially damaging your health & holding you back from achieving your potential.
I don’t need to explain the science to you. If you need convincing, watch/listen to the video I post at the end by Dr. Huberman. It single handedly changed my relationship with alcohol.
And folks, I was raised in a British household. Pub culture is real. And powerful.
Up until a couple weeks ago, I spent the last 5 months without touching alcohol.
The changes were immediate, noticeable and transformative.
Do you want to Master something? Do you drink consistently?
Stop drinking entirely or reduce your consumption. I promise you will 10x your productivity.
Why did I do it?
I had a big life change and I knew I needed to control the controllables.
My emotional wellbeing was under duress.
I told myself to eat clean, sleep a minimum 7-8 hours each night, walk 5k steps every day and stop drinking alcohol.
Here are some changes I noticed:
Physical changes
Lost 10-15 lbs
Inflammation went down
Skin cleared up
Bags under my eyes were less pronounced
Observers noted more ‘youthful’ features
Sleep was less disturbed
Mental changes
Noticeably increased clarity of mind
Ability to execute 3 to 4 hour deep work sessions - daily
My writing improved, therefore both my verbal and non-verbal articulation improved
Decision making was fast and I stopped negotiating with myself
Spiritual changes
Less anxious
Better ability to deal with stress
Dramatic improvement in ability to maintain a disposition centered in optimism and abundance
Can I honestly attribute all the above to the eradication of alcohol from my lifestyle?
I can confidently say, yes… it has that big of an impact.
When I drink, I tend to: [insert bad decision]. Diet, exercise, sleep, choosing entertainment over work… you name it.
Alcohol is a powerful drug.
I spent 5 years of my professional career working for a large brewery. I know what functional alcoholism looks like. I was well on my way to becoming one before leaving the industry. In truth, I was one.
If you are a habitual drinker, it’s very easy to talk yourself into believing it does not have a dramatic impact on your wellbeing.
If you are a ‘casual’ drinker (1-2x per week) you might even be better at convincing yourself you aren’t hurting your body & mind.
I’m not advocating for a resurgence in the Temperance movement. Nor am I suggesting any further regulatory changes.
I only speak to you in these posts, and I’m advocating you have an honest conversation with yourself about alcohol if you suspect it might be holding you back.
See if you can go a week without a drink. Then two. See what happens.
Conquer yourself and then you can conquer the world. Self-Mastery is just that. Mastering your own self.
Here’s what Dr. Huberman has to say on the matter.
This is so important. I stopped drinking when I got pregnant with my first daughter 3.5 years ago. Since then I've only had one or, maximum, two drinks when we have people over, etc. I don't miss it at all. Or, if we're being honest, I did, until an old friend came to stay with us for a couple of days. I went to a bar with her, for the first time in 2 years I left the house after my children's bedtime and went out for a drink. I still couldn't drink much, In case my 6 month old decided to do a night time waking. And I told my friend that it's been so long since I did this.
She was shook - going out and drinking is a big part of her life. I just said, there are seasons in life, and I'm not in a season where drinking or going out is a part of my life. Maybe one day they will be again, but it's not going to be soon.
She felt sorry for me, thinking how shackled I must feel with my young kids. But I don't at all. I realised I can go out if I want to, I just don't. We have guests for dinner quite often which fills that social cup, and a lot of our friends also don't drink for various reasons.
The next morning I woke up with the children at 6:30 am, tidied the kitchen, made pancakes, had a lovely coffee watching the sunrise.... her and my fiancé stayed up drinking together, they both emerged around midday totally hungover. That's when I realised what a gift sobriety is. Not just for physical health, but for mental health. I never want to miss a sunrise because of alcohol ever again.
Such an important topic, Tobias--especially in this season as we have learned so much about addiction while supporting our son in his recovery. It’s easy to go from social drinker to casual to habitual--I’ve found myself there in the past for sure. The case you make for not drinking is strong. It’s important to ask, “Is my relationship with alcohol keeping me from living my best life?”